How to understand what a man fell out of love: characteristic signs

Fortune telling on a camomile and coffee grounds, walking on fortunetellers and grandmothers. A woman who decides that a man has cooled down for her is ready for desperate actions and experiments to make sure: he still loves. She consults with friends, passes all kinds of tests on the Internet and fashion magazines. Although it is enough to follow the behavior of the husband or guy to understand: there is hope or has long died.

Pussycat bunny

People in love come up with cute nicknames for the second half, which symbolize their feelings and reverent attitude towards the object of sighing. If the usual “bunnies” and “suns” have disappeared from the man’s vocabulary, and the word “dear” is uncomfortable, then it’s time to think about what went wrong.

Important: The rule does not apply to men who are stingy with tenderness and romantic deeds, will gladly fix a faucet in the bathroom, but will not begin to recite poems by Blok or Yesenin for hours.

Instead of sweet-cloying nicknames, a couple can use code words or phrases, the meaning of which is known only to two. It is worth worrying if the man does not give the usual answer, or begins to get angry, and says "What kind of kindergarten?"

Peekaboo

It is impossible to be with one person in a cramped space 24 a day, and not to hate him. A man needs time to take a break from his beloved, to miss her chatter. Some are restored to work, others need extra hours that they spend on gatherings with friends or designing a toy model of an airplane.

If the second half asks not to distract him until 8 pm from the computer or reading books, this is normal. The alarm sounds when a man tries to stay at work with reports, slip away to friends in the country for the whole weekend, leaving the woman alone with himself, children or pets. Refuses to go to the cinema, does not invite to restaurants, and is not happy when the other half prepares a romantic dinner for him.

A cooled man does not want to spend time with his woman, from whom he could not tear himself away. He hesitates to tell her that feelings have died, he can blame himself, so he tries to hide from his former lover. Around the clock "freezes" on the Internet, immerses headlong into work or computer games, spends free time in the company of friends, or even another woman.

Important: Some men from the category of workaholics and careerists like to stay up late for another project because they like to work. Do not be jealous of his documents, or blame him for indifference.

There is no love without tenderness

The passion that made us spend nights in each other's arms gradually fades away. The concentration of hormones in the blood decreases, and people focus on careers, children and other household trifles. It is normal if a man becomes not as sexually active as at the beginning of a relationship. It’s bad when he stops caring about his soulmate:

• Does not cover with a blanket when she falls asleep on the couch, or does not take her to bed.
• I used to indulge in bed breakfast, but now I refuse to make a cup of tea.
• He leaves with friends at a bar when his girlfriend is at home with a cold and a high fever.
• He does not look into the eyes for longer than 10 seconds, although he could not take his eyes off his beloved before.
• Prefers to read the newspaper at breakfast or dinner, or to "stick" into the TV.
• Hints or directly says that they and the woman do not have common topics for conversation.
• Going to work, instead of lips kisses on the cheek, or avoids any tenderness.
• He hides his palm in his pockets when the other half tries to take his hand.

Important: If a man does not open the door, or does not give a coat, does not mean that he fell out of love. Perhaps he was not raised by a gentleman. They are advised to worry when a guy offers to solve his problems on his own, and not to take his time from him.

Overweight and small breasts

A man in love sees his woman as ideal; a cooled man is looking for a thousand and one flaws.

1. He suddenly declares: “How long can you walk in this baggy track suit? Can't you see how a neighbor from 5 apartments dresses up? Why do I need such a scarecrow? "
2. He regularly hints that it’s time to lose weight. Degrades and calls fatty.
3. Borsch is constantly salted, cutlets are unfried or burnt. And in general, something his lover began to disgustingly cook, although before in the eyes of a man was a genius of culinary.
4. The woman's breasts sagged, wrinkles appeared, and something she did not reach the level of 18-year-old girls with elastic forms.
5. The hair is terrible, the clothes are tasteless, the perfumes are disgusting. Why no makeup? Gathered on the panel, or why these red lips and arrows on the eyes?

A man who has stopped loving, becomes irritable, constantly criticizes the appearance and behavior of a woman. Hates her character traits, makes comments, sometimes in the presence of friends or in public places. He seemed to convince himself that it was she who was to blame for the lack of feelings, and therefore deserved to be abandoned.

Feeling cold, no sex

A man refuses sex, arguing unwillingness with fatigue or lack of mood? If this happens periodically, there is no reason to panic. Sometimes work takes up all of your strength, and your lover wants to stuff dinner faster, lie in a warm bath, and crawl to bed. It’s worth considering when sex completely disappears from a couple’s life.

A man has stopped loving if:

1. A woman buys seductive lingerie, comes up with a variety of ways to seduce, and he shrugs indifferently, and turns to the wall.
2. Sex lasts a maximum of 5 minutes, after which the partner moves over to his half, and pretends to be asleep.
3. A man prefers to relax in different rooms, or stay up late at the TV or at the computer so that the girl does not molest him with her desires.
4. Get angry when a woman accuses him of a cool attitude. In response, she calls her depraved and preoccupied.

Important: Sometimes a man refuses sex because of problems with potency, but does not admit his beloved that he lost an erection. The true reason can be found by asking the partner directly.

No future

If a man has stopped loving, he stops sharing his thoughts with the other half, does not tell how the working day went. Closes in himself, does not make plans. When he talks about dreams, he only mentions himself: “I will collect by car. I need to buy an apartment. Next year I want to relax at sea. ” The woman as if disappears from his life, becomes an insignificant detail that does not need to be included in her plans.

Hard methods

Sadistic men who cannot directly tell their soulmate that love has passed, begin to play with her feelings, forcing them to leave. They do not just look for flaws, but prefer to compare a woman with others, talk about past relationships, and ex-mastery.

Others make a lover, and do not try to hide this fact from a constant partner. Some seduce a stranger in bars, and spend the night with new friends. They disappear for several days or weeks, and return home, as if nothing had happened. They understand that they hate their woman, but instead of leaving, they enjoy her suffering.

Tip: If fate is faced with just such an instance, you should not think that love and patience will change the situation.Psychologists recommend gaining courage and breaking off all ties in order to give yourself hope for a new and happy relationship.

Third wheel

Sometimes a man’s feelings fade, because another lover appears in his life. A third party presence can be recognized if:

1. He preferred to spend his free time on the couch in front of the TV, but suddenly enrolled in the gym, and went out for a run every morning, not offering to join him.
2. The man does not leave the apartment unshaven or unkempt; he bought perfumes and a couple of decent suits.
3. He doesn’t take the phone out of his hands, constantly writes messages or talks with someone in another room, trying not to be heard.

A man who no longer loves a soul mate is not jealous of her friends and colleagues he knows. She doesn’t try to amuse a woman, doesn’t give flowers even for her birthday or March 8th. It is as if he is building an invisible wall, and the subconscious tells the girl: "That's all."

The only thing a woman can do in such a situation is to put up with it, not to humble herself, and leave with dignity. Attempts to keep a man either will not succeed, or will make both partners unhappy. It is better to break off relations, and allow the wound to heal over time, than to suffer all my life, and make my loved one suffer.

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