How to understand that a pen pal likes you

Online dating and subsequent pairing is widespread. It is fairly easy to identify flirting in person, but in correspondence everything is more complicated. It’s not always possible to understand what’s going on in a guy’s head. It seems to be nice talking, asking questions, but doubts about his sympathy do not go away. If you have basic observation skills and can analyze the information received, you can easily identify the true intentions of the young man. Consider the main points to which you should pay attention.

Signs of pen pal

1. He writes first. If a young man starts a dialogue immediately after you have appeared on the network, he wants to communicate with you as long as possible. In such situations, we can say for sure that the young man was waiting for the girl to come. In other cases, you should wait a while until the guy writes first. It is possible that most often you started a conversation. He is used to it, so he does not want to start a dialogue. Wait until the last, a young man should be a conqueror, not you.
2. Maintains a conversation. An interested young man can always keep up the conversation. He will come up with 1000 and 1 questions to create a conversation. Notice if the guy is interested in your affairs. Does he ask how the day went, how are parents, friends, pets, etc. Leading questions help the young man to keep you closer to himself, he tries to prevent the passion from leaving the account.
3. Asks personal questions. A young man in love will not unequivocally answer the questions asked, he will try to tell something about himself and find out more about you. If a guy is interested in his personal life, he is on the hook. The speech of the interested young man is designed as much as possible, and the answers are detailed. A sign of sympathy is long messages with personal information about yourself.
4. Communicates every day. If a guy is considering a girl for further relationships, he will unobtrusively write to her daily. It’s not necessary to have intimate conversations for hours, even the frequent “Hello, how was your day?” will be a clear sign of falling in love. In addition, the young man will track the last visits of the lady of the heart on the network, view her photo.
5. Asks for advice. In most cases, young people are not overly talkative. All conversations come down to jokes or communication on common topics (school, hobbies, travel, etc.). However, if a guy asks you for advice or help, in this way he shows confidence. Besides the fact that the young man respects his interlocutor, he also appreciates her opinion.
6. Not in a hurry to say goodbye. A guy interested in a girl will continue the conversation in any way possible. He will begin to ask a lot of questions, throw off pictures, not answer your farewell. When the young man nevertheless decides to let you go to sleep (work, study), he will write the longest farewell. In case the young man is limited to “Come on!”, “Bye!” or “Before communication!”, you are not interested in him.
7. He shows interest in details. To understand whether you like a pen pal or not, you need to pay attention to leading questions. An interested companion will note minor changes in the appearance of his passion. He will also be interested in which city the photo was taken or the video was shot. Increased curiosity is seen only in lovers who are in love, everyone else does not care about your life.
8. Brings correspondence to a new level. If you met a young man no more than 2 days ago, skip this step. Girls who have been chatting with a pen for more than a week should read on. Sympathy can be judged by the intensity and depth of conversation.If you think conversations are getting longer and more interesting, the guy is passionate. Talk to him for another 10 days and re-analyze.
9. Leaves a comment. A man in love tracks the life of his passion, even when it is not online. Watch how often the guy puts “likes” and comments on photos. The main emphasis should be on the pictures and recordings that appeared after your acquaintance. Compliments sent by young men in private messages also indicate sympathy. Similar actions characterize flirting.
10. Reacts to a change in status. The social network has the function “Update Status”, use it as often as possible. Put deep thoughts of philosophers or clippings from songs. Watch the reaction of the guy. If he asks where the phrase comes from, the guy often wanders on your page. The young man wants to be closer.
11. Solves problems. When a young man is interested in a lady, he will do everything possible to make her life easier. Ask a guy for a question or a relatively difficult question. Rate his actions. If a young man starts calling friends to solve a problem and actively unsubscribes to you, he is in love. The guy is trying to win his interlocutor, satisfying her needs.
12. Jealous and defends. Try to make the young man jealous. Tell him that you are going to the movies today, but do not specify with whom. If you notice that the guy begins to get angry and ask relevant questions, he is not indifferent. Also, a man in love will protect his passion before acquaintances, after which he will tell you by correspondence about the consequences of the dialogue (if there was a negative side from mutual friends).
13. He takes care. In cases where the correspondence falls during the period of your illness, monitor the behavior of the guy. Be sure to tell him that you got the flu or got a sore throat. If a young man begins to show anxiety, daily is interested in your well-being, asking for a visit with cake and oranges, he likes you. To achieve a greater effect, you can slightly embellish the indicator of body temperature or the general condition of the body.
14. Expressed sincerely. The guy in love does not hesitate to seem sentimental to the girl. He spent hours telling funny moments from life, sharing the main events, expressing feelings. The young man is not rude, shows tenderness and attention, provides comprehensive support. An interested man tells about his hobby and is interested in yours, singles out his passion among the entire “flock” of girls, and praises the lady.
15. Tries to make laugh. If you have a liking for a guy who has a sense of humor, don't let him go. Determining whether he likes you or not, will help easy observation. A young man flirts, poking fun at you. He constantly wants to make his interlocutor laugh, sends her funny pictures and videos. In this case, do not hesitate to harmlessly tease the object of sympathy. If he answers your attack, falling in love is mutual.
16. Expressed competently. Watch how the young man speaks. If at first he made a lot of grammatical and punctuation mistakes, and then corrected himself, the guy wants to be better. He is trying for your sake, because the interlocutor on the other side of the screen is not indifferent to the young man. In the case when illiteracy remains the same, the object of sympathy does not try hard enough.
17. Excited and bored. Exit the social network on a plausible pretext, be sure to say goodbye on a good note. Then do not log in to your account for several days. If on arrival a young man starts attacking you with messages asking “Where did you disappear?”, It is quite possible that he was bored and worried. Most often in such situations, men ask for a number just in case.
18. Not imposed. If a young man is sufficiently educated, he will not impose his society.A good guy is waiting for time to make sure you like him. In the case when after a few days of communication he begins to call to visit or ask for you, leave the network immediately. Perhaps the young man is only interested in sex.
19. Thinks about the future. If in the correspondence you noticed that the guy began to mention your interests, remembered your favorite color and dish, he likes you. The young man is trying to make a good impression, he is thinking about a joint future. An interested guy is attentive to the mood of the interlocutor, he strongly wants to improve it and find out what is the matter. The young man wants to be closer.

Practical recommendations

1. Learn to distinguish true intentions from false phrases. Some guys talk to girls when they have nothing to do. They can flatter, leave “likes”, comment on records, but do not show interest in your life.
2. It is important to understand that not all people tend to communicate on social networks. Often, a messenger is installed to spread a couple of words 2-3 times a month. If a guy answers for a long time (several days), you are not interested in him.
3. Respect the views of the person you are talking to. Many guys are closed by nature. They may not share their life, but be intensely interested in yours.
4. There are young people who are closed in tête-à-tête communication, but boldly correspond in a social network. This does not mean that the young man is a hypocrite. It's just that in messages it’s easier for him to open up and talk.

Examine all the signs that will tell you about the guy’s sympathy. A young man in love tries to help his interlocutor, waits for her to appear on the network, writes first and stays in touch every day. If a young man asks for advice, is interested in your opinion, asks personal questions, you are not indifferent to him.

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