How to meet a girl on the street

Sympathy is quite unpredictable. When a man likes a girl, it's hard to say for sure what exactly attracts him. The underlying factor is gait, smile, appearance or manner of speaking. The most daring representatives of the strong half of humanity prefer to get acquainted on the street. Actions can hardly be called easy, so it is important to adhere to certain instructions. Experienced pickers are advised to pay attention to psychological aspects. Let's consider them in order.

Appearance

1. It's no secret that girls are attracted to tidy, confident men. For this reason, before proceeding with the manipulations, we recommend that you put yourself in order.
2. Particular attention is paid to clothing, it must be clean and ironed. To win over a beautiful lady, give preference to the classic style. An ideal option would be loose pants without arrows, a shirt, a jacket in the style of "street".
3. A man is determined by three things: shoes, watches, perfume. Make sure shoes or moccasins look stylish. They do not have to be expensive, the main thing is that there are no Chinese inscriptions.
4. As for watches and perfumes, choose products from well-known brands. It's not about price, but quality. Fake is not so difficult to determine, "advanced" girls will cope with this in two ways.
5. If you belong to the category of bearded, tidy facial hair. Visit the barber shop, carry out appropriate care manipulations. It is also important to take care of the haircut, manicure and skin (black dots should not be present on it).
6. It is important to remember forever that men should take care of themselves. It is not necessary to turn into a "sweet boy", it is enough to follow the basic rules. Smokers should use an oral freshener to prevent unpleasant odors.

First meeting

1. If you want to meet a girl on the street, it is important to remember the basic aspects. As a rule, the beautiful half of humanity moves from point A to point B. If we are talking about cultural places (park, central streets, etc.), there you can meet a leisurely strolling lady.
2. First of all, evaluate the circumstances in which the first contact will take place soon. If you notice a girl who slowly walks and inspects everything around, you can meet her. In cases where the lady is in a hurry, sweeping everyone around, leave her alone.
3. Make eye contact, catch her eye for 4-5 seconds. Psychologists say that during this period a girl can be subdued. Follow the pattern: caught a glance - smiled - said “Hello!”.
4. Approach the lady in such a way as to be in sight. The best option for communication is considered to be a distance of 45-60 cm. Do not violate personal space, otherwise the girl may be scared.
5. Well, if you go to meet. It is important not to block the young lady's path, but to stay a little to the left / right of her line of movement. Do not creep up behind, it will frighten off “prey” and make it speed up the pace.
6. When you approach the girl and stop her gaze, turn the case a little (position - “half a turn”). Such a move will tell the lady that she can leave when she wants. Do not stand "nose to nose", you are not so close to each other.
7. You held her gaze, smiled and got a smile in return, but the lady still does not slow down? Go around it slightly, but do not block the road. After that, try to get to know each other.No need to stop the lady in motion, grabbing hands. Such a move is regarded as rudeness, you are doomed to failure.
8. It is unacceptable to touch the girl’s body even at random. For this, there is personal space of 45-60 cm. If you want to meet a lady who is sitting on a bench, do not hang over her. Bend down slightly to be at its level. You can also sit down next, and then start a conversation.

Method number 1. Acquaintance with the preposition

Acquaintance with the preposition is also called the "contextual approach." In this case, the guy turns to the girl in order to give advice or ask for help.

1. The most common option is information about the territorial location. You can find out how to find the nearest ATM or go to Cosmonauts Avenue. Any excuse to which you will receive an answer will do.
2. You should not be interested in difficult things. In this case, you run the risk of receiving the answer “Sorry, I don’t know.” This will end the "entertaining" dialogue.
3. You can meet at the bus stop. It is enough to meet a pretty young lady and find out from her how to get to Pushkin Square.
4. Girls love animals. You can seduce a beautiful young lady by finding out the address of the nearest pet store from her. Well, if at this moment you will be holding in the hands of a yard kitten, which must be fed.
5. Another pretext for acquaintance will be the collection of information about pizzerias or Japanese restaurants in the city. Pretend to be a poll promoter. After that, invite the lady to one of her favorite places.
6. Try to get acquainted with the girl by commenting on the events. For example, you can talk about the weather or a musical composition coming from a passing car.
7. If you have a great sense of humor, you can let go of an interesting joke. Such a move will relax the lady and bring her to you. Just do not joke in a piquant or vulgar style.
8. After you ask a question or turn to the lady with another plausible excuse, carefully listen to the answer. Look for clues that will allow you to continue the dialogue in a more straightforward manner.

Method number 2. Original acquaintance

The modern world leaves its mark on society. More and more beautiful ladies are interested in impudent men who possess irony, arrogance and gallantry (3 in one).

1. It is important to remember forever that the original (“pick-up”) approach should be used with extreme caution. If you are not sure about your own capabilities, consider a different option. The technique is designed for courageous men without complexes (self-confident).
2. The original acquaintance is as follows: you release a couple of jokes or seduce a young lady, as they say, on the move. A shrill and at the same time sweet phrase should shock a lady, forcing her to answer you.
3. For example, you made eye contact and received a reciprocal smile. Approach the girl with the words: "It seemed to me, or are your eyes shining cooler than a diamond?" After that, do not take your eyes off as long as you can.
4. Another option is the role of the victim: “Hello! Call an ambulance, please! You shot me with an arrow of Cupid! ” If the girl smiles, with a sense of humor, she is all right. Take an interest in how good a picker is among you.
5. If for some reason you have encountered a girl on the street several times, focus on this: “Lady, you dreamed about me today! I fall in love with you again and again! ” It sounds frivolous, but some ladies will like this train of thought.
6. You can intrigue the beautiful half of humanity with the phrase “You are amazing! Today, not all girls can boast of natural beauty, but you did it! ” Such a move is fraught with a “tackle" and a compliment.

Method number 3. Acquaintance without gimmicks

This dating option will allow the girl to understand why you stopped her on the street.

1. The direct approach is as follows: you greet the girl, compliment her, start a dialogue. If the lady is free, there is a great chance of successful continued communication. In cases where a girl refuses, she is not interested in casual acquaintances.
2. When you notice a leisurely walking young lady, try to unobtrusively stop her. An option would be: “Hello! Sorry if I interrupt. Could you give me 2 minutes? I want to talk! ” For the allotted time, you need to say the maximum number of compliments or hook the girl in another convenient way.
3. You can also greet the young lady, then immediately report that you liked her. It is important to know in advance about the marital status of the girl. Thus, you will not put her in an awkward situation that will arise in the event of forced communication.
4. It is known that girls love ears. Give as many compliments as possible, while trying to be unobtrusive. Create an enabling environment for dating. If it is cold outside, offer to reschedule the conversation in a cafe with the words “I treat you!”.

Practical recommendations

1. If the meeting was successful, and you got the attention of a beautiful lady, go to plan “X”. At this stage, the situation may turn out in two ways: you will exchange phones or arrange an early date. If the girl has time, invite her to the cinema, and before that visit the pizzeria / Japanese restaurant. In cases where the beautiful lady is in a hurry, reschedule the meeting for the evening. It is important not to delay communication so that the conquered side does not change their mind.
2. There are often situations when a man liked a girl who is in the company of a girlfriend or mother. In this case, turn to the lady’s companion with the words: “Allow me to steal your girlfriend for one minute?”. If you were given the go-ahead, arouse the girl's interest in one of two ways (pick-up or direct). At the same time, do not forget to exchange phone numbers or give your number. Be sure to inform that you will be waiting for a call in the near future. Follow the scheme: first charm the company, then ask the girl to give you time.
3. Throughout the dating, try to behave at ease. The girl should not see your nervousness, ladies are attracted by confident men. Avoid trembling in your voice, do not fold your arms over your chest, do not get too close. No need to actively gesticulate with your hands; speak emotionally, but not loudly. The main goal is the following: you need to charm the girl in the first 2 minutes, otherwise she will become bored. As a rule, young and unmarried young women get to know each other on the streets.

What to talk about with a girl

A well-chosen topic for conversation is an important aspect of further communication. If a girl gets bored, she will quickly find an excuse to avoid your company.

1. In the process of dating, try to give answers to questions of interest to the lady. She will want to find out who you are, for what purpose you decided to introduce and why you chose her. Many men are known to be dangerous. In this way, the girl must protect herself.
2. Reassure the lady that you are not a threat to her. For this reason, it is recommended to get acquainted in the afternoon. Talk delicately and politely so that the girl does not confuse you with cosmetics sellers, goodbyes or promoters. Do not forget to mention that you study or work nearby. This step will create the feeling that you are an adequate guy.
3. Try to clarify the reason for your behavior from the first minute you meet. Let the girl know that you chose her because of your sympathy. Indicate that you want to know if she is so beautiful inside, as well as outside.
4. The subject of dialogue can be absolutely unpredictable. By tradition, focus on the weather and work, then you can switch to active sports, your favorite music and hobbies.Find out what the young lady does in her free time, what position she occupies, etc. Tell us a little about yourself: what you do, eating habits, love for animals, and so on.

To meet a girl on the street, you need to follow simple rules. Clean your hair, shoes, clothes, beard (if any). Do not block the lady's path, think of a topic for conversation in advance. Choose one of the methods you like, and then proceed to the manipulations. In no case do not joke in a vulgar form, do not be rude in return.

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