How to make her husband confess to treason

As soon as a man begins to cheat on his wife, she feels similar changes on an intuitive level. Understanding comes much later after convincing facts. It is worth knowing that suspicions are not always true. There are many reasons why a man may treat you differently. Let's consider everything in order.

On what grounds can you determine a husband’s betrayal

Do not stick to your usual daily routine
Married men who left on the left side change their routine abruptly when they find a mistress. Pay attention to this: what time does the husband leave for work, what time does he come, what does he do at the lunch break, how often is his phone “busy” during the service.

It is important to understand that extra time is required for a mistress. Consequently, the spouse will be delayed after work, citing workload. Often men cheat on their wives under the pretext of "staying overnight with a friend", "the car broke down", "got into a traffic jam / accident" and so on. Be wary of changes; if possible, double-check everything.

Cool to you sexually
Faithful husbands require regular sex from wives, which cannot be said about infidels. If the spouse has another woman, he will want her, not you. Indeed, it is often for this reason that men find lovers for themselves.

Rate his activity in bed: if the partner is clearly cool, this is an alarming bell. A woman with a flair will notice that her husband comes home satisfied and joyful.

Better caring for himself

There are also changes in appearance, the husband can often visit the hairdresser, take a shower several times a day, iron clothes and clean shoes. To test a hypothesis, “accidentally” break your husband’s razor. If he becomes indignant and starts to scandal, it is likely that there is still a rival.

Doesn't let the phone go
If the romance spun behind you, the man in any case is forced to somehow maintain contact with the new passion. In the age of technological progress, a phone is indispensable. Watch the narrowed. If he does not take the phone out of his hands, in the literal sense, carrying it everywhere with him (to the toilet, shower, etc.), treason takes place.

It is sad that in this case it will be difficult for you to check outgoing and incoming calls, SMS, possible joint photos. Some men keep the phone open, while recording their mistress in the phone book as “Vitaliy work” or “Igor oil change”. Be on the lookout. If “Igor oil change” rings several times a day, you should be wary.

Often hovers in the clouds
Fascinated by another woman, a man constantly thinks of a new passion, can smile for no reason and often hovers in the clouds. Such husbands cease to have intimate conversations with their wives, because they have someone to talk to.

Usually unfaithful men are interested specifically in their mistress, and not in their wife and children. If you notice a clear cooling in terms of interpersonal communication, your husband found “free ears” on the side.

Changed his attitude to clothing style
As mentioned earlier, the unfaithful spouse takes care of himself. When a man is interested in another woman, he tries in every way to conquer her.

New clothes, shoes, watches and other trinkets that cost money are used. If earlier the narrowed one wore a shirt called “to the holes”, now he is buying new things and ironing them to mirror reflection.

Clean and ironed clothing is a clear sign of betrayal, but only if the change is too dramatic. Such behavior should alert you, because the husband is trying in every possible way to please another woman.

Spends money not on you
If money started to disappear from the family budget or your husband “does not inform” your salary, you probably have a rival. Mistress requires attention and courtship.

She needs jewelry, going to restaurants and cinema, beautiful clothes, flowers, sweets. All this takes money. If you see changes in the family’s wallet, consider where they flow.

The husband does not admit to treason: why?

1. It is worthwhile to understand that if a man is unfaithful to his wife, he has thoughts in his head that everything is kept secret. The wife does not think about this and does not even guess, which means everything is captured. Also think about the fact that a man can remain faithful, and you have worked yourself a lot of extra thoughts.
2. Look for irrefutable evidence of betrayal, speculation and forebodings do not count. Perhaps the other behavior of the man is associated with problems at work or trouble with friends. Therefore, do not immediately blame him for treason. Perhaps the spouse is changing just for you, and you suspect him in vain.
3. If there are children in the family, the man does not want to destroy the marriage and leave his wife. In most cases, third-party relationships are not serious. But this also should not be taken for granted; look for evidence of the existence of a third person in your relationship. Do not give up early. Do not agree to this and continue to live with a traitor.

Actions that will force her husband to confess

1. If you clearly suspect your man of treason, start a direct search for evidence. If you can’t find anything, don’t despair and speak unproven phrases to his spouse in his betrayal. Such a move will be stupid and will not bring any results.
2. In any case, the man at the psychological level will begin to defend and refute your speculation. The husband is quite capable of asking a counter question, in which case you will feel guilty. Hence scandals are inevitable, most often the deceiver is precisely what he achieves, removing his suspicions.
3. Try to log into his social networks, read the correspondence. Look at your mobile phone, pay attention to SMS and mail. There may be scheduled appointments, interesting photographs and vulgar love texts. Pay attention to calls when and how your husband answers them.
4. It is worthwhile to understand that you need to find irrefutable evidence that cannot be challenged. Otherwise, you will turn out to be a nervous tantrum, which suspects the spouse in everything. If you are unable to find clear evidence, press on conscience.
5. Speak more gentle and affectionate phrases, remind how good and faithful he is. If the reaction is contrary to your conversation, the spouse will begin to wriggle and react differently than before, cheating on the face. Do not dig further. It is important to understand that even in this case, he is unlikely to confess.

After the evidence found, talk seriously with your husband. Forget about scandals, such behavior will push your spouse even more. Stay calm despite the pain. In rare cases, after such a situation, marriage can still be saved, such stories are individual. Therefore, talk with your husband heart to heart and decide your future fate in fact.

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